You must know that many of them are not educated and exposed and, she could have been too attached to her son before you came into his life. If you are someone with this kind of heart, it says one thing" you are not in love with the man because if you are, you won't pray for anything that can cause him pain.Īlso know that there are times these mothers-in-law do things, not because they are wicked, but because that is their level of reasoning.
But I also don't think it is a good enough reason for anyone to wish another dead. I know some girls say things like this after experiencing what their mother or sister went through in marriage. I know this statement could have been made out of fear and anxiety. I have heard girls say they don't want to get married to a man whose mother is still alive. If the mother maltreats the father and other people around her, there is every tendency that your wife will have issues with your mother and siblings.īut there are also some girls from very good homes and with very godly upbringing, but from mixing up with peers, have cultivated some attitudes and mentality that are completely opposite of what they were brought up to know. This is why it is always advisable to check out the family and upbringing of the woman or man you want to go into marriage with. There are also women who are from very bad homes with no good upbringing and training received from the mother. I know there are women who are from very good homes with godly upbringing, but they became different people after marriage due to blows received from life and in-laws. A lot of good women and wives have been pushed to the point where they eventually become, like one of my friends says, worse than hurricane Katrina. In fact, it will take the spirit of God, an exceptional one for you to go on in your good deeds. I know how difficult and frustrating it could be when you try and do all you can to make someone happy only for the person to keep on returning evil for good. When you understand that life is turn by turn as the musicians said it, you will be careful how you go through it. This is life what goes around, comes around. The mothers-in-law were sometime daughters-in-law and daughters-in-law will someday become mothers-in-law. I believe every woman was, is, and would be a daughter-in-law. Isn't this the same case of women being their own enemies? I had this as a post on my Facebook wall sometime ago and from the reactions, I could see that this is a very big problem that may need a very long time to be sorted out. I have taken time to critically look at this issue because of the problems women are having in their relationships? Why is it that our men don't have this same issue with their mothers-in-law? I have also wondered why fathers-in-law don't always have issues with either the son or daughter -in-law. Some mothers find it difficult to accept the fact that their son or daughter has grown and should be allowed some independence. A man is first his mother's son and as it is said, no matter your age, you remain a child to your mother. This battle among women gets hotter when a man decides to bring another woman home to become his flesh and body.
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